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Every divorce is different. But you're not the first person to feel this way.
"My spouse just told me they want a divorce"
You had no idea. Maybe you thought things were fine — or at least fixable. Now your world feels upside down.
I need help right now →"We have kids and I don't know how to tell them"
The hardest conversation of your life is ahead. How do you protect your children while falling apart yourself?
Help me with this →"I found out they were cheating"
The betrayal cuts deep. Between the anger, the hurt, and the practical decisions ahead — it's overwhelming.
Talk to someone now →"After 15+ years, they just left"
You built a life together — a home, routines, memories. Now you have to rebuild everything from scratch.
Get my action plan →"I want the divorce but feel guilty"
You know it's the right decision, but the guilt is crushing. You worry about hurting everyone around you.
Start planning →"I'm scared about money"
You've never handled finances alone. Or maybe you're the breadwinner worried about losing everything.
Understand your options →"My spouse cut me off from our money"
They control the bank accounts, the credit cards, everything. You feel trapped and powerless.
Learn your rights →Real Stories from People Like You
These are real experiences. Names changed for privacy.
I was 34 with two little kids when my husband told me over breakfast that he'd been seeing someone else. I couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, couldn't think. Having a clear action plan for the first 72 hours gave me something to hold onto when everything else was falling apart.
Sarah, California
Two kids, 8-year marriage
After 22 years of marriage, she told me she wasn't happy anymore. No warning signs I could see. I was devastated. But knowing the practical steps — protecting my finances, finding a good attorney, taking care of myself — helped me get through the darkest weeks.
James, Texas
Long-term marriage, no children at home
I'm the one who wanted the divorce, and the guilt almost destroyed me. Everyone kept saying 'but he's such a nice guy.' Nobody tells you how hard it is to leave even when you know it's right. I needed someone to tell me it was okay to choose myself.
Maria, New York
Initiator, 5-year marriage
The hardest part wasn't the legal stuff — it was telling my 7-year-old daughter that daddy wasn't going to live with us anymore. I wish I'd had this resource then. Knowing what to say, how to say it, when to say it — that guidance is priceless.
David, Florida
Father of two, contested divorce
Guides & Resources
In-depth articles to help you understand your rights and take action.
The First 72 Hours After Your Spouse Says They Want a Divorce
Start HereThe most critical 72 hours of your life. Step-by-step: what to do, what NOT to do, and how to protect yourself.
Financial Abuse During Divorce: When Your Spouse Controls the Money
Most ReadYour spouse cut you off from bank accounts? Learn your legal rights, emergency steps, and how courts protect you.
The Complete Divorce Checklist: Everything to Gather Before Filing
EssentialFinancial documents, property records, children's info, digital accounts — the complete list.
Divorce Myths Exposed: What You Don't Need to Be Afraid Of
NewYour biggest fears — debunked. Your spouse can't just take the kids, change the locks, or leave you with nothing.
How to Prepare for Divorce: A Strategic Planning Guide
NewMonths before you file — finances, documents, housing, legal consultation, and building your support network.
Digital Safety During Divorce: Protect Your Privacy
NewSpyware, passwords, location tracking, shared accounts — protect your devices and digital life.
Frequently Asked Questions
Learn from Famous Divorces
Real cases, real lessons. Every famous divorce teaches something about prenups, custody, hidden assets, and your rights.
Jeff Bezos & MacKenzie Scott
2019
The most expensive divorce in history — settled in months, not years
$38.3 billionJohnny Depp & Amber Heard
2016–2022
A divorce that became a global defamation trial watched by millions
$7 million (donated to charity)Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie
2016–present
8+ years of custody battles — and still no final resolution
Ongoing (estimated $500M+ in combined assets)This project lives on your generosity
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